1. when a black person has deducted the reasoning behind your scheme
2. when a black person rationalizes your reasoning.
3. When a black person wants you to know that they’re impressed by your.. Style, job, car you drive, project you’re working on, etc, etc
Pain (any pain—emotional, physical, mental) has a message. The information it has about our life can be remarkably specific, but it usually falls into one of two categories We would be more alive if we did more of this, and, Life would be more lovely if we did less of that. Once we get the pain’s message, and follow its advice, the pain goes away.🙏